Saudi home.. Dammam

Our Saudi home was in a gated community on the outskirts of Dammam, close to Kateef. It must have been built in the early sixties. It housed two larger double story homes, and forty some mid-size homes.  It was gated in by a palm tree branches (sa3f) fence.  The...

Heritage

Everyone in my family spoke Arabic, and they spoke it with a relatively uniform accent. Therefore references to our Turkish, Kurdish, North African heritage didn’t really make sense to me until later in life.  When I visited my great maternal aunt (Khalto...

kasr el-sufra .. breakfast Syrian style..

Food in Syria is a tradition, a source of pride, a way of life.  Volumes can be written on recipes, their names, serving traditions, cultural relevance, and origins. Breakfast (kasr el sufra) consisted of: Jiddo’s delicious homemade fruit cocktail; its...

Traditions

Spending summers in Syria meant taking part in traditions.  Some I welcomed, others I dreaded. Lunchtime with mom’s family was one of the most memorable traditions.  Khalo Ameed (Uncle),  Khalto Hazar and Khalto Nowara (Aunts) and later my younger cousins, sat...

Nature in Damascus

Allan de Botton’s book Status Anxiety is my favorite read.  I read it at age 32; it explained feelings of discomfort, displacement, social anxieties and the yearning to belong. At age four, my mother and I traveled from Damascus, Syria to Khobar, Saudi Arabia to...